How does one succeed in life?
11.06.2025 02:25
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Why do narcissists and especially covert narcissists always play the victim?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Do not set goals—set systems.
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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
That's it for today.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What has been your best sexual experience?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Why won't my mom let me come home if I'm homeless?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Procrastinates a lot.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
In your humble opinion, why does the narcissist mistake kindness for weakness in some people?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What I need from you?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Ask yourself:
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Does not procrastinate.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.